Monday, November 30, 2009

About integrity.... a framework

VALUE 1: Integrity
Responsibility
Taking 100% responsibility                                         claiming vs blaming
Responsibility as a leader: Evoking a response          dialogue and conversation
                                                                                    vs debate, discussion and instructing

Commitment and ownership                                      seeing opportunity
vs feeling obliged and bound

Keeping one’s agreement
Authenticity and honesty                                            presence, commitment and ownership                                                                                  vs mask and persona, blamism and escapism
Emotional honesty                                                      trust and openness
                                                                                    vs fear, dissimulation and escalation

Emotional literacy                                                      I-ness and we-ness (claiming)
vs. i-or-u-ness (blaming)

                                                                                    Trusting our intuition
                                                                                    vs cluttering the mind

Authentic speaking
Speaking from the heart                                             Reaching out
                                                                                    vs breaching out

Assertiveness                                                              Confidence with kindness and truth
                                                                                    vs force and hurt

Curious / resonant listening
Openness to learning                                                  Welcoming feedback
                                                                                    vs shutting down people

                                                                                    Learning from others
                                                                                    vs teaching others

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